"I was 15-years-old in my sophomore year of high school
when I found out I was pregnant. I was scared and I didn't know
what to do. I told my sister and my parents and they weren't as
mad as I thought they would be. We had no idea what to do so we
contacted the Nebraska Children's Home for assistance."
"With the Nebraska Children's Home, I just assumed that
I would have to go and place my child for adoption, which when
I first talked to the caseworker she explained that was not what
she was there for. She was there to help…to give us advice…to
lead us down the right path. If I wanted to parent she would help
figure out budgets, if I wanted to choose adoption, we would explore
the routes of that."
I don’t think there is anything that I would do different…and
I feel so satisfied and so confident about my decision that there's
just nothing I would change at all."
"I don't think I would do it any other way. I have absolutely
no regrets about anything."
“It was my mom that suggested calling Nebraska Children’s
Home. I worked with Teri and she was so kind and so understanding.
It wasn’t like she was judging me at all, which surprised
me since everyone else was judging me. She was great.”
“Because I was adopted when I was younger, I choose adoption
because I knew I wasn’t emotionally or financially ready
for a baby. It was a hard decision and it still is hard, but I
know it was the right decision.”
“If anyone is in this situation, I suggest that they call
Nebraska Children’s Home Society. I already tell others
that I recommend NCHS. I do think the big thing if you are choosing
an adoption plan is to make sure to talk with the adoptive family
and discuss all the expectations you have. It is important for
everyone to be involved in that situation.”
"I got pregnant when I was 17 and I never told my parents…they
kind of found out. They didn't take it very well and they kept
asking me what I was going to do. I didn't know so I just didn't
deal with the fact that I was pregnant for a long time. Finally
I called Kim (NCHS caseworker) one morning when I was late for
school and it was the hardest phone call I ever made because I
was actually being truthful with myself.
"I was dating a guy and told him I was pregnant and we broke
up right away. I didn't tell my parents until I was seven months.
We had no idea what we were going to do, so me and my parents
called Nebraska Children's Home."
"The reason I placed my child for adoption was because I
wanted to be a part of her life, but I also wanted to go to school,
I wanted to have time with my friends, and I want to be a teenager."
"I went in there and I think by that time I had made up
mind that adoption was going to be my plan, but Kim went through
both sides: I could parent or I could adopt. We went through both
sides."
"I started to attend a birth mother support group at Nebraska
Children's Home and my mom attended that with me. That was very
healing to be around other birth moms that were going through
the exact same thing. It was nice knowing that I wasn't alone
and that there was always someone to talk to and somebody to relate
to me."
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